By the SOUND of it…
- July 12th, 2010
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Two weeks ago we (Marianne and I) were at two different weddings. In both cases a friend or relative had apparently agreed to help out by playing music for the ceremony and in both cases….it wasn’t smooth.
This situation brought to mind my past as a wedding DJ. At that time I was almost NEVER at a wedding that I wasn’t working at. Because of this I was generally unaware of what would happen when professional sound management was vacant from a wedding ceremony. Since I stopped DJing I have had many occasions to experience what a wedding ceremony is like without a DJ, band, or instrumentalist. There is a vast difference.
Wedding #1
Despite all of the planning that happens prior to a wedding, sometimes the most basic of things get missed. In the case of this wedding, the “friend” running sound wasn’t told to fade out songs once people were up front for the ceremony. Now, this seems like a little thing…until the bridemaids take 45 seconds of a 4 minute song to get to the ceremony location. The remaining 3:15 is absolutely painful. Because of the angle I was at to take pictures I couldn’t see who was standing in line to come down the aisle. I actually assumed that something had transpired that caused a delay…therefore the song was played longer than necessary as the problem was fixed. I was wrong. The song ended on its own, the “friend” started the next song and the next person finally came down. That person was the bride and she took about 30 seconds to get to the alter but the song just kept on playing. At that point I stood in the middle of the aisle behind everyone’s backs but in view of the officiant (Johanna Respini). I non-chalantly motioned towards the music and then ran my hand across my throat in the “cut it” fashion as a way of asking if Johanna wanted me to arrange for the music to end. She subtly nodded and I made the arrangements (this is the great part about working with professionals).
Later in the ceremony the issue returned during a rose ceremony, but the bride turned and glared at the “friend” with an obvious gesture to end the music and it was faded out.
Wedding #2
This wedding was far simpler, but the same problem reared its ugly head. The entire procession was just one song (Goin To The Chapel), but it somehow started part way into the song which sounded horrible. In virtually no time the entire bridal party was up front and ready to begin…but the music continued. Not only that, but the stereo that was used was on the 2nd floor of a home and no one was manning it. Eventually someone caught on and ran upstairs to turn the music off, but it seems that the officiant in this case decided to plow ahead (I couldn’t really tell as I couldn’t hear her over the music). The mother of the bride than told the officiant to stop until the music ended, and she did it through angry, clenched teeth. To be honest, it was awkward for EVERYONE.
So what’s the point? After photography, sound should be a major consideration for a wedding. Whether it’s a DJ, instrumentalist or a band, having someone that knows what they are doing behind the sound controls will help weddings in so many ways. I have great admiration for A Sound Choice Entertainment and the DJs that they employ for this very reason.
Please don’t assume that sound is something that can be ignored at a wedding. Hiring a professional can be the difference between a smooth ceremony and angry, clenched teeth.





















